Innere-Kind-Arbeit 2025 - Valentin Dinges

I accompany you on your growth path with inner child work.

Integrate old wounds through inner child work and find new joy in life.

Hello,

ich bin Valentin Dinges, studierter Ingenieur (RWTH), jetzt Lehrer, Facilitator für Innere-Kind-Arbeit nach Dr. Margaret Paul und Trainer für Gewaltfreie Kommunikation.

I will help you to see things more clearly again and to understand and categorize your feelings.

Take the first step now and book a Introductory meeting with me!

You can work with me in person in Aachen or online.

Become a reliable, loving adult for your inner child

You yourself are the Expert or the expert for your own history and your own development.

I support you by helping you to navigate your inner processes through inner child work and Your own solutions to develop. This will teach you Structuredhow you independent take care of your feelings and emotional challenges.

This is how you grow into the role of a reliable, loving adult for your inner child. This allows your inner child to become more and more Safety and security experience.

Inner child work, but different

I was welcomed by the team from Dr. Margaret Paul and Dr. Erika Chopich trainedto support you with inner child work. In her longseller "Reconciliation with the inner child" they describe their special approach of inner child work. Some of the main features are

A STRUCTURED PROCESS THAT YOU CAN APPLY

You will get to know and apply the structured 6-step process. This will give you a roadmap to guide you in your everyday inner child work. In this way, you can learn to reliably look after your inner child because you will be able to act again - even when emotions are intense.

BECOME A LOVING ADULT FOR YOUR INNER CHILD

You learn to become a loving adult for your inner child by reliably being there for its feelings and needs. This allows you to create from within Security and security for your inner child.

A COMPREHENSIVE CONCEPT FOR YOUR GROWTH

My coaching style encompasses your development on an emotional, cognitive, somatic, relational and action level. This allows you to move forward in your process - because you are not stuck on one level (e.g. knowing your old beliefs but not knowing how to really feel your new ones).

UNDERSTANDING YOUR INTENTION AS THE CRUX OF THE MATTER

You learn to distinguish the two basic intentions in each moment and choose: to try to protect yourself from pain and control safety; or to learn what it means now to be supportive of yourself and love yourself.

ACTIVE USE OF RESOURCES

You already have the resources to process, understand and realign yourself. I support you in discovering and exploiting this potential. You will learn how to use your resources to develop your own solutions.

UNDERSTANDING SELF-RESPONSIBILITY COMPREHENSIVELY

You learn to take full responsibility for your inner child, your own feelings, thoughts and actions. This gives you the power to actively shape your life. In this way, you can experience deep self-efficacy in your life.

"Coaching" is rightly criticized.

I only use the term because it is common. Why my offer is different and what makes it different:

❌ With me, there are no click funnels, no pressure to buy, no artificial scarcity, no manipulation.

✅ You make your own decisions, exactly when it's right for you.

❌ There is no vague uncertainty about my qualifications.

✅ I have completed several intensive trainings and a comprehensive 16-month training with the team of Dr. Margaret Paul and Dr. Erika Chopich to support clients with their method of Inner Child Work. I am regularly supervised and have been actively using the method myself for 5 years. I am transparent about the fact that I am not an alternative practitioner, therapist or doctor.

❌ I'm not promising a miracle cure, a 2-day transformation, a finger-snapping solution to all your problems, manifestation drivel or offering pseudo-spiritual bypassing.

✅ Inner child work is a profound process. There are always successes and relief, but also disappointments and old pains that come up. Nothing can, will or should "heal" you. However, you can become an increasingly loving adult for your inner child, and this process can show you new perspectives, options for action and changes in your life.

❌ I do not offer psychotherapy and I do not denigrate psychotherapy. I do not present my offer as a substitute for therapy or medical treatment.

✅ My offer is coaching aimed at mentally stable people. I only work with people who are undergoing psychiatric or psychological treatment after they have discussed their desire for coaching in therapy and the person treating them has approved it.

❌I don't make my clients dependent on my offer.

✅ My aim is for you to no longer need me as quickly as possible, e.g. because you have integrated inner child work into your everyday life as a reliable process. If you would like someone to continue to hold space, I am there for you.

What clients say

"Working with Valentin has created profound maturation and transformation processes for me. His guidance is characterized by a loving, non-judgmental presence and a sure intuition. He supports me in making the experiences and discoveries that are most important to me right now. He has a great inner calmness that is transferred to me in a beneficial way and gives me a lot of space for my process. I am very grateful for his wonderful guidance."

"Valentin is a very caring and gifted trainer. He has such a loving and gentle way of communicating and holding space with compassion. It is inspiring for me to see how mindful, respectful and open he gives his classes. His example and loving presence have greatly supported and positively influenced my inner child work. I am very grateful that I had the opportunity to work with him."

"I have been working with Valentin for almost a year and have been deeply touched by his compassionate, empathic and gentle approach to this powerful form of inner work. He is a highly skilled guide who naturally leads his clients to a deeper understanding of themselves. I give Valentin my highest recommendation as a guide for inner child work."

A hint:

My inner child coaching can show you new perspectives and design possibilities and give you impulses for your personal development. I do not promise a cure, I do not treat or diagnose symptoms or illnesses, because I am not a therapist or doctor. Our work together complements, but does not replace, a visit to a doctor or therapist. In the case of physical complaints, you should always have an organic cause clarified.